{"id":32256,"date":"2017-11-28T05:00:34","date_gmt":"2017-11-28T11:00:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/publicityhound.com\/?p=32256"},"modified":"2024-05-15T16:54:59","modified_gmt":"2024-05-15T16:54:59","slug":"wives-keep-their-maiden-names","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/purelysupp.com\/publicity\/marketing\/wives-keep-their-maiden-names\/","title":{"rendered":"Are Men Whose Wives Keep Their Maiden Names Wimps?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-large wp-image-32261 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/www.publicityhound.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/wedding-night-541x360.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"541\" height=\"360\" \/>Years ago, I heard media trainer Joel Roberts say that if you want to get onto\u00a0a big radio talk show, your chances skyrocket if you have a juicy topic that riles up listeners.<\/p>\n<p>The idea must be so controversial or compelling that a motorist who listens to the show while driving gets angry enough that he pulls over to the side of the road, whips out his phone and calls the station to comment on the air.<\/p>\n<p>I thought of Joel&#8217;s advice when I saw the results of a recent study from the University of Nevada in which researchers found that whenever a husband&#8217;s last name differed from that of his wife&#8217;s, he was frequently described in ways that both de-emphasized his masculinity\u00a0and overemphasized any feminine characteristics. (I&#8217;ve even heard a few people refer to these guys as wimps.) The results were published earlier this month in the Sex Roles journal.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Right now, I can see lots of women motorists on that same busy highway pulling out their phones to call the station. They&#8217;re the ones who decided to keep their maiden names. But they aren&#8217;t even pulling over.\u00a0 They&#8217;re going 70 miles an hour while dialing.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Why This Story Almost Guarantees Publicity\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I love this story for so many reasons:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Women who have chosen to keep their own names will want to explain why. And a husband might want to defend himself and his wife&#8217;s good judgment to keep her maiden name.<\/li>\n<li>It piggybacks off a news story, in this case, a legitimate study&#8212;three studies on the same topic, actually.\u00a0<\/li>\n<li>Most of us know a woman who chose to keep her maiden name. It could be a sister, a best friend or a former college roommate. And many of us would fight to the end to support her, even on the radio!<\/li>\n<li>Men and women on the other side of the argument, in favor of the time-honored tradition of the\u00a0woman taking the\u00a0husband&#8217;s name, would want to weigh in, too.<\/li>\n<li>Women might want to comment on why they think it was a mistake to their take their husband&#8217;s name or keep their maiden name.\u00a0<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>10 Ways to Newsjack This Story for Publicity\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Consider these ideas for piggybacking onto this story or claiming it as part of your own, also known as newsjacking, the term coined by PR pro David Meerman Scott.\u00a0<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>Radio is my Number One choice for this story. Call your local NPR station or your\u00a0favorite drive-time talk show.\u00a0<\/li>\n<li>TV is my second favorite, especially if you can find married couples on each side of the topic to be part of the story and comment on camera.<\/li>\n<li>How about taking a Facebook poll and encouraging your friends and followers to share the poll and the results? You&#8217;ll find Facebook groups galore, filled with people who would be interested in this topic.<\/li>\n<li>Authors, speakers and experts whose books are on topics such as romance, weddings, gender issues and dating should offer themselves as sources for local and national media.<\/li>\n<li>Marriage counselors and therapists, this one is perfect for you.\u00a0<\/li>\n<li>Don&#8217;t forget\u00a0podcasts where you&#8217;d make a great guest. Refer to the<a href=\"https:\/\/itunes.apple.com\/us\/genre\/podcasts\/id26?mt=2\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> iTunes podcast directory.<\/a>\u00a0<\/li>\n<li>Write a guest blog post for a high-traffic blog. Take a strong stand on either side of this controversial topics. See <a href=\"https:\/\/blog.hubspot.com\/marketing\/guest-writer-popular-websites\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">&#8220;From <\/a>HBR<a href=\"https:\/\/blog.hubspot.com\/marketing\/guest-writer-popular-websites\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> to Mashable: How to be a Guest Writer on 11 Popular Sites.&#8221;<\/a><\/li>\n<li>\u00a0If you write an article for your own\u00a0blog, post it to your LinkedIn profile and share it with\u00a0relevant LinkedIn groups.\u00a0<\/li>\n<li>People love lists. Compile a list of the most famous celebrities who have taken their husband&#8217;s name. How many are still married?\u00a0 \u00a0<\/li>\n<li>Do a Google search for media outlets that have covered this story. Write a letter to the editor or offer an opinion column.\u00a0<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>If you&#8217;re going after traditional media, it&#8217;s a good idea to offer some &#8220;extras&#8221; along with your pitch. Those include statistics, experts who are willing to comment on the opposite side of the position you&#8217;re taking, and other\u00a0people such as marriage counsel0rs who can help create an entire segment.<\/p>\n<p>Those are my ideas. Let&#8217;s hear yours. The comments section awaits&#8230;.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Men whose wives choose to keep their maiden names are often viewed as less masculine and lacking pants in the relationship, a new study finds. Authors, speakers and experts can piggyback onto this story for publicity, also known as newsjacking.&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/purelysupp.com\/publicity\/marketing\/wives-keep-their-maiden-names\/\" rel=\"nofollow\" class=\"rmlink\">Read more<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","iawp_total_views":3,"wds_primary_category":1,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[236,36,656,681,682],"class_list":{"0":"post-32256","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-marketing","7":"tag-newsjacking","8":"tag-pitching-the-media","9":"tag-promote-expertise","10":"tag-talk-radio","11":"tag-tv-talk-show","12":"entry"},"featured_image_src":null,"featured_image_src_square":null,"author_info":{"display_name":"Joan Stewart","author_link":"https:\/\/purelysupp.com\/publicity\/author\/jstewart\/"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/purelysupp.com\/publicity\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32256","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/purelysupp.com\/publicity\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/purelysupp.com\/publicity\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/purelysupp.com\/publicity\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/purelysupp.com\/publicity\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=32256"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/purelysupp.com\/publicity\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32256\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":41382,"href":"https:\/\/purelysupp.com\/publicity\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32256\/revisions\/41382"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/purelysupp.com\/publicity\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=32256"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/purelysupp.com\/publicity\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=32256"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/purelysupp.com\/publicity\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=32256"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}